This is Willow. She was the first dog I saw (on line) that I fell in love with, and HAD to have. She was a rescue dog from a shelter three hours away from here. We had the perfect dog as our FIRST dog - Reilly. He was a Golden Retriever, and was just "THE" dog. After he passed away, in February, I lasted til April before I BEGGED to get another dog. My husband knew no one could ever live up to Reilly, so he didn't want anotehr dog. But I had been infected with "dog love" by that point, and could NOT live without a dog. I drove to Syracuse and "rescued" Willow - and came home with one of her pups, Bridget, as well. (Can you say SUCKER? Yep, you'll say it again in a minute, too!) Willow was skin and bones when we got her, and would have NOTHING to do with my husband, or any other male, for a very long time. She was terrified of everything,and skulked around, acting like we were going to beat her. She was obviously abused before she was abandoned. She has turned into the most loyal, loving, devoted dog ever. I can't take a step but what she's there. If I move from one room to another, she follows. She is ANNOYINGLY loving at times. But we love her for her lovingness. And she adores my husband and everyone else in her world these days. She is the ONLY dog out of the 4 that I have who does not need to be hooked up outside, and who will not run away even if the gate is left open. Are you kidding me, she must think to herself. WHY would I want to run away from HERE? 
This is Abai (Abigail Beatrice, actually, but I call her


Abai B (AB-B-B). She is the "replacement" dog for Bridget, who did not live long due to a very unfortunate accident several months after we got her. I felt TERRIBLE for Willow, because she was a very good mother dog, and I felt bad for my daughter, who had claimed Bridget as "her" dog, but who was gone out of state when she passed away. I felt like I had to quickly get a replacement for both Willow and my daughter's sake, and so, since my husband had loved our original Golden Retriever so much, I "replaced" Bridget with Abai. Unfortunately, there is simply NO comparison. Reilly was smart - Abai is dumb. REALLLLLLY dumb. Reilly was light blonde - Abai is dark red, like an Irish Setter. The only real similarity is that Goldens are, by nature, very gentle and sweet dogs, and Abai certainly is. She loves anyone, and everyone, and that would even include anyone who thought perhaps they should break into our house, or kidnap a child of mine. I have no doubt that Abai would welcome them, to the house or the child, and lick them to death, and then miss them when they were gone. I KNOW I should love her lots, but she's just SOO dumb. I don't NOT love her. She just is at the bottom of the dog hierarchy here.

Border Collie. She, too, will get a longer post of her own soon, since she just had her first birthday, and I really owe the breeder a letter and some pictures.
couch, I am very strict with my dogs. All the things I said I would NEVER do - dogs on the furniture, dogs licking out my ice cream bowl, feeding a scrap or two from the table, buying REALLY GOOD dog food. Yeah, they suffer here. Can you tell? (Did you catch the fact that Abai was laying on a pillow on the floor up there? Rough life, dog!)
cats come and lay down in front of Willow, usually within her front paws, so that she will "groom" them. She takes her teeth, and very gently, goes up and down their heads and backs, nibbling, grooming. The cats purr so loudly when she does this for them that you can hear them across the room.

5 comments:
Awe! What cute pups! Your husky remind me a little of my Sam. Very adorable dogs you have!
-Leigh
I noticed that, on your blog, that Sam looked like Annie (or vice versa) and was going to comment on that, but forgot.
What wonderful stories about your dogs. Especially how Willow has come to trust men despite her earlier experiences.
Bramble does look a lot like Loki...
Funny about your husband not wanting a replacement for Reilly. Nine years ago my dog Connah past away (far too early) he had a weak artery which nobody knew about until the day he left us. Connah was a mountain of a dog (Lab/Rottweiler cross), over eight stone of pure muscle, the calmest temperament of any dog I've known and boy was he clever (to damn clever at times!). When he went, I swore blind that I'd never have another dog even though till then there had always been a dog in my life. But I just didn’t think anything could replace Connah. Months later and a black bundle of legs and ears is whining at 2am in the kitchen, Lucy aka the bog monster had arrived. I was right about Connah not being replaced, a friend like him you don’t replace, you just have a new, different friend (oh boy is she different!). I know now that I’ll always have a dog (dogs?) around me, just not as replacements, but as part of the family. It’s a while since I thought of Connah, (still have his ashes) so thank you for giving me a nudge and letting think about him again.
Very best regards,
John
I am so glad to find out I am not the only sucker.
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